Are you pretending everything is fine, when it isn't? Are you leaving something open, hoping for a different answer, instead of accepting no? As in "No, it's over. No, he's never coming back. No, it's not going to happen."

Sometimes, a small problem is masking a much bigger problem. When you ignore the elephant in the room, the problems in the relationship grow.

Lesson Three tackles the Ostrich, a DramaGuru Position that includes ignoring things or being ignored, confusing the issue for other people or being confused yourself and burying your head to avoid the issue completely.

Learn how to navigate the Ostrich position. Sometimes, your best move is to ignore the situation until the danger has passed. Read Lesson Three and learn how the Eddie Attack from Lesson One is used to shove you into Ostrich. And then learn how to thwart that attack. Get your power back!